What I Value Most From the 2024 Democratic National Convention—I Doubt It’s What You Think It Is
Tuning in to the 2024 Democratic National Convention (DNC) this past Tuesday evening wasn’t listed on my mental agenda, but I did. I admit I was drawn in by the DNC roll call. I was captivated by the energy and positivity of the proud residents of each commonwealth, state, and territory that resonated through the television screen. I found myself smiling as I listened to the second gentlemen of the United States, Doug Emhoff, describe his childhood and the loving make-up of his blended family. However, I mostly enjoyed the story of his first phone call to Madame Vice President Kamala Harris. As Mr. Emhoff exited the stage, the thought came to me to “go to bed,” but then, Mrs. Michelle Obama entered the arena. Needless to say, I stayed up. I can’t be sure if it was the way Mrs. Obama walked to the podium, her sleeveless top, or her hair styled in braids that caused me to forgo sleep and listen to what she had to say. Frankly, those things played a role, but it was mainly because of who she is.
Michelle—like I know her—spoke with confidence, conviction, and poise, as usual. She said things that made me laugh and think, but most of all she made me feel proud as a Black woman. I experienced similar feelings as I listened to the second gentlemen, minus the “Black woman” part, of course. In my humble opinion, they both did phenomenally, yet their speeches weren't the major takeaways for me that night.
As an onlooker, patriotism seemed to radiate throughout the room. Actually, I believe it was more than an appearance because the feeling was on me as well. It was refreshing to see and hear hope, joy, and inclusion in relation to the future of this country. However, once again, that was not what stood out to me the most. Notwithstanding, it is my desire and plan to pray for my country and its future leader, but I will seek God for that “thing” that intrigued me most about the DNC this week, as well.
Before Michelle left the stage, she introduced her husband, the 44th President of the United States of America, Barack Obama. As he strolled in, he non-verbally acknowledged his wife with appreciation and pride. The embrace and gaze they shared exuded requited love, resounding support, and mutual respect. Although, I didn’t witness Doug and Kamala interact that night, they seem to share feelings similar to the Obamas. These individuals inspired me seek and provide those attributes in my intimate relationships.
Seeing the Obamas on stage together made me think, “I want that!” Don’t get me wrong, I realize things aren’t always as they appear—I was married before. Now, I’m wise enough to know the importance of the specificity of my requests. Be that as it may, both couples demonstrate intelligence, professionalism, and most of all love, which is all worth emulating.
